Greetings from Hangzhou, China!
So after what must have been the longest day of my life, both my two 50-pound suitcases and I made it to Hangzhou, China. Since then, I’ve just been settling in, getting to know my roommate, learning more about the program, and taking placement tests. So far, everything has been going very smoothly.
There are a total of 13 students on the program that all come from different American universities (there are actually only 4 Middlebury students, despite this being a program from their university). There is also one other Fulbrighter on a CLEA grant, so I’m not the only one here who has already graduated. Everyone is very bright and friendly, and I think that we should all get along pretty well.
My roommate Chen Yan is really wonderful. She is very helpful, eager to become good friends, and above all, extremely patient. I am incredibly thankful, and look forward to getting to know her over the next four months.
So there’s a lot I could say about my experiences so far and culture-shock (yes, it is all too real), about my classes and newly-signed language pledge, but for now I’ll just address the title of this entry, “Studying foreign languages is like a pair of shoes.” (Michelle and Stefi, this one goes out to both of you).
Okay, so here it goes: you go to a store and find a pair of shoes that you absolutely adore. Let’s say, a pair of red patent flats (made in China, naturally). They’re somehow both cute and functional. You think of all the amazing things that you’re going to be able to do with these shoes. However, when you try them on you realize how tough they are. Your soft, dainty feet scream in protest. But regardless, you identify their potential use and comfort. More importantly, you can’t live without them.
You buy the shoes. You are so excited to wear them for the first time, but after 5-some hours you grow to hate the shoes. Resent the shoes. What the hell were you possibly thinking? Will it EVER get better? However, being stubborn and resilient (after all, you did invest a lot in these shoes), you persevere through band-aids and blisters. Finally, after much hard work and dedication, you break them in (or rather, let’s be honest, they break you in). You wear them all the time with ease. Thank God.
However, the season changes and you reluctantly have to retire the shoes. You buy another pair (Italian leather boots, to be exact), and endure through the same struggle to break them in. You miss the red flats, but have grown to love the boots as well.
But all too soon, boot season is over. Time to pull the red flats back out. But where as a couple of months before they were so comfortable, your blisters have softened and you have to start over again.
BUT NOT QUITE. Here’s the good news: yes, your feet are sore, you have to rebuild your blisters, but this time it’s not quite as bad. Your feet slowly remember, and the shoes are softer after their last use. So yes, wearing shoes requires constant use and dedication, but somehow, it pays off.
So there you go. Breaking in shoes is a flawless analogy for how one learns a language, provided that we stop here and omit the footwear's inevitable destruction. Perhaps you think that this is merely the toxins and pollution talking, but I assure you that if you think about it, you’ll realize how genius this is.
And with that, a lovely Saturday to everyone in America! If you want to know what Sunday will be like, just drop me a line...
Um, I have had this exact issue you're describing with a pair of red patent flats. Please know that I very much appreciate and relate to your philosophical analogy :) Glad things are going well, miss you molto!
ReplyDeleteThis IS a genius analogy. (Did you come up with it yourself? Because if so you should patent it...ack no pun intended!) Well, I hope you'll put those leather boots back on someday, but I'm glad those red flats are treating you well!
ReplyDeleteSo what's Sunday like?
Hahaha. That analogy rings very true. I might have to put the red flats back on myself soon...哎呀! :D
ReplyDeleteSorry I'm late to the game - I actually only comprehend major life experiences if they're translated into fashion-speak, so this analogy worked exceedingly well for me :-)
ReplyDeleteDon't despair! Sometimes you can wear your red patent ballet flats for so long that they become your preferred shoes. They mold to your feet perfectly and become your go-to shoes, your matches-every-outfit shoes, your "i need to look adorable with maximum comfort" shoes. And then you end up feeling more comfortable in them than in anything else you own! And then inevitably you discover a hole in the heel and suddenly the shine wears off and you realize that all your clothes are pink so red doesn't really match them that well...
...anyway I forgot where I was going with this but I'm glad to hear your feet are toughening up and you're having a great time so far! Keep me posted lover!
You're cute. I leave for Sicily in a month and my feet hurt a little in anticipation. And by that I mean "my feet."
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